What about women who cheat?? (just to be a pain in the ass...) Because women harp on about cheating all the time then I hear of women who cheat and I am mind blown, and not in the type of way anyone wants to be mind blown.
However, this is beside the point. I hope things are ok?
That is very true, I should have just put 'I hate cheaters' lol. I have known more men that cheat than women, but maybe all my male friends are assholes ha! Yeah things are okay, just ranting because I'm angry. Oh well! Life goes on.
One of my male friends, who is/was a serial cheater cannot fathom a woman cheating, like it deeply ingrains his further "hate" of women, and his argument was something along the lines how we're meant to be the nurturers, the baby carriers, the caregivers etc. and cheating just went against that making us pure evil.
I have to say, after he gave me a much better run down of his point of view than I did that even I was a little swayed to his way of thinking.
I can understand that point of view somewhat, depends on how true the hunter/gatherer theory is. I definitely have known more men that cheat than women. But in this day and age, with female 'empowerment' I guess is the term (I hate that word), and the genders supposedly being more equal, it happens by both and to both. However, I also feel that regardless of gender, if you are in a loving relationship and supposedly truly care about the other person, you wouldn't do that to them. It makes me question if I was truly cared for or not, always putting up with excuse after excuse, and that just sucks.
I do wonder often though if it is just part of human nature to stray... I don't know. Hmm.
What about women who cheat?? (just to be a pain in the ass...)
ReplyDeleteBecause women harp on about cheating all the time then I hear of women who cheat and I am mind blown, and not in the type of way anyone wants to be mind blown.
However, this is beside the point. I hope things are ok?
That is very true, I should have just put 'I hate cheaters' lol. I have known more men that cheat than women, but maybe all my male friends are assholes ha! Yeah things are okay, just ranting because I'm angry. Oh well! Life goes on.
ReplyDeleteOne of my male friends, who is/was a serial cheater cannot fathom a woman cheating, like it deeply ingrains his further "hate" of women, and his argument was something along the lines how we're meant to be the nurturers, the baby carriers, the caregivers etc. and cheating just went against that making us pure evil.
ReplyDeleteI have to say, after he gave me a much better run down of his point of view than I did that even I was a little swayed to his way of thinking.
I can understand that point of view somewhat, depends on how true the hunter/gatherer theory is. I definitely have known more men that cheat than women. But in this day and age, with female 'empowerment' I guess is the term (I hate that word), and the genders supposedly being more equal, it happens by both and to both. However, I also feel that regardless of gender, if you are in a loving relationship and supposedly truly care about the other person, you wouldn't do that to them. It makes me question if I was truly cared for or not, always putting up with excuse after excuse, and that just sucks.
ReplyDeleteI do wonder often though if it is just part of human nature to stray... I don't know. Hmm.